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Friday! Proverbs!
The beginning of strife is like letting out water, so quit before the quarrel breaks out.
Proverbs 17:14 ESV
The water got let out of the fish tank this week...and you know what?
You can't put it back in.
Whether its a tank, a dam, a  glass or a tap that comes to mind, once its out...water is difficult to get back.
Proverbs is telling us that there's often an opportunity at the beginning of an argument, a quarrel, a fight, where it can be stopped.
And its not by the other person, but by me.
Quit
Abandon
Walk away
My response in a conflict situation is to spark up in the same way.
The writer here is telling me to abandon the fight before it starts.
Before something is said that can't be unsaid.
What does that leave me with then?

Listening

Listening for the other persons heart, listening for the truth they have for me or about me, listening for God's voice.
To quit before the quarrel takes humility.
And we have a good role model for that...
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#lovepeopleevenwhenitcosts

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