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Friday!
Proverbs!
In the end, 
people appreciate honest criticism far more than flattery.
Proverbs 28:23 NLT
In the end.
In the end means that it might take some time for another to appreciate honest criticism. 
How do I know this? 
Because it's my experience of honest criticism, that it has taken reflection, thought, consideration to accept, to see the other person's perspective, and to acknowledge my own error. 
So if it can take a while for me to get there sometimes, it's likely that the same is true of others, and navigating that space with grace, patience, kindness, is not easy. 
With proverbs it's about the heart, the heart that flatters others, and the heart that offers honest criticism - why do I do either?
What motivates my flattery?
What motivates my honest criticism?
Would we all be better off sometimes without either?
#proverbs 
#wisdom 
#somethingtochewon 
#itsaheartthing 

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